A networking pro-tip

I don't know about you, but I've felt out of my element at in-person events more than once.

Through practice trial and error, I have developed a simple way to restore my confidence, calm, and poise.

Introducing...

Reconnaissance lap

Do this when you arrive at a gathering and don’t know who to talk to (everyone seems to be spending time with their besties), or where to go.

How it works:

1. Enter into the arena
2. Notice the urge to run away
3. Walk around the venue, taking your time to observe the environment
4. After completing your scouting lap, hold your ground, and smile

The benefit:

I have no scientific evidence to back my argument, yet after I finish my lap, people approach me on the spot, and we start interesting conversations.

On other occasions, I'm able to spot a group to approach, which I do by saying, 'Hi there, can I join you?'

There you have it, a new trick up your sleeve.

Have a great week!

Alberto